Stay close to those who sing, tell stories, and enjoy life, and whose eyes sparkle with happiness. Because happiness is contagious and will always manage to find a solution, whereas logic can find only an explanation for the mistake made.
Stay close to those who allow the light of Love to shine forth without restrictions, judgments, or rewards, without letting it be blocked by the fear of being misunderstood.
No matter how you are feeling, get up every morning and prepare to let your light shine forth.
Those with eyes to see will see your light and be enchanted by it.
A young woman, who rarely left her house because she thought no one was interested in her, said:
“Teach us about elegance.”
Everyone in the courtyard muttered:
“What kind of question is that to ask when we are about to be invaded, when blood will soon be running down every street in the city?”
However, the Copt smiled, and his smile was not a mocking one, but filled with respect for the young woman’s courage.
And he answered:
Elegance tends to be mistaken for superficiality and mere appearance. Nothing could be further from the truth; some words are elegant, some can wou
nd and destroy, but all are written with the same letters. Flowers are elegant, even when hidden among the grasses in a meadow. The gazelle when it runs is elegant, even when it is fleeing from a lion.
Elegance is not an outer quality, but a part of the soul that is visible to others.
And even when passions run high, elegance does not allow the real ties binding two people to be broken.
Elegance lies not in the clothes we wear, but in the way we wear them.
It isn’t in the way we wield a sword, but in the dialogue we hold that could avoid a war.
Elegance is achieved when, having discarded all superfluous things, we discover simplicity and concentration. The simpler the pose, the better; the more sober, the more beautiful.
And what is simplicity? It is the coming together of the true values of life.
Snow is pretty because it has only one color.
The sea is pretty because it appears to be a flat plane.
The desert is beautiful because it seems to consist only of sand and rocks.
However, when we look more closely at each of these things, we discover how profound and complete they are, and recognize their qualities.
The simplest things in life are the most extraordinary. Let them reveal themselves.
Consider the lilies of the field and how they grow; they neither toil nor spin. And yet even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.
The nearer the heart comes to simplicity, the more capable it is of loving freely and without fear. The more fearlessly it loves, the more capable it is of revealing elegance in its every gesture.
Elegance is not a matter of good taste. Every culture has its own idea of beauty, which is often completely different from ours.
But every tribe, every people, has values that they associate with elegance: hospitality, respect, good manners.
Arrogance attracts hatred and envy. Elegance arouses respect and Love.
Arrogance causes us to humiliate our fellow man or woman. Elegance teaches us to walk in the light.
Arrogance complicates words, because it believes that intelligence is for only the chosen few. Elegance transforms complex thoughts into something that everyone can understand.